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THE OTHER SIDE OF DESIRE

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Desire is commonly misunderstood as want — a simple hunger for pleasure, success, love, or relief. In psychology, however, desire is more accurately described as   a directional force : the impulse that pulls a person away from what is, toward what might be. It is not merely about acquisition; it is about   escape, correction, or transcendence . Desire arises at the fault line between dissatisfaction and imagination. It is born when reality no longer feels survivable in its current form;even if, from the outside, it appears stable, privileged, or enviable. At its core, desire is not gentle. It disrupts. It questions. It unsettles loyalty to the present. This is where the idea of  “the other side of desire”  begins — not at fulfillment, but at  departure .  Suicide Beyond Death When suicide is discussed, it is often confined to the literal act of ending one’s life. Yet psychologically, suicide is not defined solely by death, but by  the intention to ab...

EUPHORIA(the pursuit of Happiness)_ I'd rather stay spent

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                " Restlessness and discontent are the neces sities for progress"   Often times than not, we get carried away with the feeling of euphoria or momentary happiness over certain things at a particular point in our lives. It could come from the littlest things; a new job, a roof over our heads, a lover ❤, a few good friends and family, etc.. & I know u might be asking, "what's so wrong with that"? I would love to tell you- nothing, that its absolutely fine, but that would be a catastrophic lie! Why? Because the state of constant rest or inertia leads to a lack of innovation and mediocrity. At that point we fail to discover the difference between living and just existing. Existing is a state of not adding value to one self nor environment, but just surviving on vibes and whatever fate throws at you. Living is the act of obtaining fulfillment and peace by being an existing force of value and substance. A valuable person constantl...