Life'n'Me

                                                                                                                  20's  JOURNAL   •             No one’s coming to save you, get up and give yourself the life u desire.  •             Not everyone’s going to like you, no matter how awesome you are & that’s okay. Focus on & cherish the ones who do.  •             People don’t really care about your struggles or excuses, your end result is what usually gives the first impression and what matters.  •             Considering the concept of...

                                                OF THINGS, BEGUN.. Eyelids flutter open.. Daylight so bright..eyes go seeking the dark.. No, the lights are not to blame… For they are refreshing,warm & breezy.. But the indication of the light Doth weigh down the euphoria of the new day.. Yes a new day… but with stale emotions & demons A new day of memories Memories a double edged sword Memories-a blessing & a curse Memories a sibling to feelings Memories a cousin to emotions For where memories fail, It’s relatives stay Memories of lost love Memories of lost opportunities Regrets & yearnings of the past Fear & Uncertainty of what’s to come Of things lovable and unlovable Of things said & not said Of things done & not done Of things known and unknown Of the realization of being stuck Of the state of weakness Of the sinking feeling of h...

                                                    THE LANGUAGE OF TRUST   Trust serves as a verification badge. It's a seal of approval that grants you free and convenient access. If you can gain someone's trust, you have the ability to control them. Trust is earned by sincerity and truthfulness in a person. It can be discovered when they don't even notice, or when they have the potential to lie and get away with it but choose to be honest. This frequently occurs in simple or uncomplicated settings. So sincerity gives the first impression to earn trust followed by other factors depending on the context. However, the simplest entry point to earning a person's trust is when caught off guard being truthful in difficult situations. Truthfulness is followed by loyalty and then accountability.  A person who is responsible and not hesitant to take on dut...

                                                  THE MEN WE LOVED TOO MUCH...   Letters to the men I loved too much🙂 (Tears) ◦ Letters to a love that never loved me back 🥲 ◦ At a time & age where people get into relationships & marriages for convenience, selfish intent, fear of being alone & societal stigma; if you’re lucky to find someone who complements you mutually in passion & friendship, try not to loose them. ◦ Letters to a love that never loved me enough🥲 ◦ The world would be a happier place with happier people, if we could overcome d stringencies of ego & miscommunication in relationships. ◦ Letters to a love (that I loved) that never gave up on me😍🔐❤️‍🔥 ◦ Anyone who repeatedly goes beyond their limits for & to keep u, is the only one worth fighting for. Even if you loose the fight, rest assured it was f...

                                                                WIELDING GRIEF  People frequently pray and struggle against sadness; this is natural since as humans, we are hardwired to gravitate toward pleasant or safe conditions and away from the opposite. However, it is vital to highlight that as humans, we cannot truly eliminate sadness because everything in life comes in pairs (such as happiness and sadness) in order to create balance. Sadness is essential to human emotions, from birth to old life. So, how do we deal with this? Or, wield it? According to research, sorrow is one of the top three strongest human emotions, and from what I've seen, all bad emotions are interconnected. You will realize that melancholy, like fear, wrath, and disappointment, is not a separate thing in and of itself. They all arise from various...

                " Restlessness and discontent are the neces sities for progress"   Often times than not, we get carried away with the feeling of euphoria or momentary happiness over certain things at a particular point in our lives. It could come from the littlest things; a new job, a roof over our heads, a lover ❤, a few good friends and family, etc.. & I know u might be asking, "what's so wrong with that"? I would love to tell you- nothing, that its absolutely fine, but that would be a catastrophic lie! Why? Because the state of constant rest or inertia leads to a lack of innovation and mediocrity. At that point we fail to discover the difference between living and just existing. Existing is a state of not adding value to one self nor environment, but just surviving on vibes and whatever fate throws at you. Living is the act of obtaining fulfillment and peace by being an existing force of value and substance. A valuable person constantl...